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Bridesmaid’s Role

Posted on July 23, 2011 at 2:58 pm

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Hello Bridesmaids,

So glad to see you are taking your Bridesmaid’s role seriously and that is why you have come to me for advice. The first advice I would give you is to get yourself fit and healthy to conduct your role and be organised, calm and enthusiastic. After all your main role is to ensure that the Bride has a stress free wedding – from the lead into the weding right up to the wedding day and after. So well done on your enthusiasm. (See water picture this water can help you loose weight if you have any to loose).

My first advice to you is that you should be completely focused on what it is that the Bride wants you to do for her and her wonderful wedding day.

Start by creating a Wedding Plan with timelines on it as to when each item should be happening and keep calm through all the planning. I have an idea that will help you keep calm, wear this wonderful pendant which not only keeps you calm but also will protect you against any infrareds in your life such as computers, microwaves, flashy lights, mobile phones etc. that depletes your energy and can interfere with the conscentration you require for your bridesmaid’s role. Whereas this pendant will increase your energy, keep you balanced, calm and organised while you wear this, especially at the start of your preparations, as it will ensure that your organisation skills are at a very high standard.

Dos and Don’t for Bridesmaids

Something to keep you organised, calm and enthusiastic

1. Do not accept the Bridesmaids role if you have a burning hatred for the goom.

2. Do not argue with the Bride about the style, the colur, the material of the bridesmaids dresses.

3. Do not disagree with anything that the Bride wishes to have on her wedding day, such as her music choice, food choice, venue etc.

4. Do not get drunk on the day of the wedding.

5. Do not sleep with the groom before or after the wedding.

BUT

Do:-

1. Be available for the Bride at all times.

2. Do ensure that the Brides dress compliments her figure and makes her look the best she can on her glorious Wedding Day.

3. Do organise a hen night that is suitable to the Brides taste.

4. Do invite only the people that the Bride likes to her hen night.

5. Do have an Emergency Kit on the day comprising of tights, tissues, baby wipes, breath mints, safety pins, brush, lipstick, nail file, hair grips, hair spray, spare ear ring backs, spare ear rings, mobile phone (switched off) pain relief tablets, and pen.

In summary:-

You role on the day is of utmost improtance to the bride and the other attendants. You must maintain a calming influence thorughout the day and be as organised as possible.

I have found a fantastic bracelet to match your pendant to keep you calm, alert and able through the day a must for any bride or bridesmaid. Look at the videos for testimony as to how good these products are to ensure that you are the most organised, calm and enthusiastic bridesmaid of all time.

Best of luck and enjoy.

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Kate & Williams Wedding

Posted on May 2, 2011 at 6:42 pm

Their first public kiss

Hi Folks,

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I was glued to the television watching Kate & Prince Williams wedding and it was just perfect. What I would like you all to think about now is not being nervous on your wedding day, imagine if you had to face the crowds that Kate and William had to face as a new Bride and Groom. I guess for William it is par for the course but for Kate this is all new to her and as any new Bride knows that your wedding day is the most important day of your life.

I got great ideas from watching their wedding, some of which I now want to share with you:-

1. Bridemaids – only have the one and definitely have your gorgeous young nieces or nephews as the additional bridesmaids an dof course if you don’t have nieces or nephews perhaps some of your friends have young children who would only be too delighted to have them share your wonderful day.

2. The bridesmaid wearing white certainly compimented the bride as opposed to taking away from her. Even though the Bridesmaid Pippa was stunning so too was the Bride so they both complimented each other.

3. Listening to talk shows after the wedding, especially Joan Rivers was also enlightening as they commented on Tara Palmer-Tomkinson’s bright blue coloured ensemble as over the top to the extent that it could have over shadowed the bride – so watch that guests when going to a wedding don’t be more stunning than the bride.

4. Also Joan Rivers comments on the fact that Samantha Cameron wife of David Cameron British Prime Minister came to the wedding without a hat and they considered that to be an insult to the Queen as they believed that the invitation would have specified wearing a hat in it. So there is another idea for you if you want your guests to wear a hat say it on the invitation.

5. Kate leaving out the word ‘obey’ out of wedding vows made me smile. So what if you leave the word obey in especially when you consider the rest of the sermon which is to Listening to talk shows after the wedding, especially Joan Rivers was also enlightening as they commented on Tara Palmer-Tomkinson’s bright blue coloured outfit stating that she was making an effort to out do the bride. Not my thoughts but all guests should be mindful of that and not overdress when attending a wedding for fear that they may out shine the Bride.

6. I was particularly interested in Kate not wanting to include the obey in her wedding vows especially based on the fact that neither did Diana. When you think about it what difference does it make when you consider Diana’s situation where she would have made similar vows to Prince Charles and likewise Prince Charles to Lady Diana yet leaving out the obey was in significant when you consider that they would have made the following statement just like Kate to William:-

“I Catherine take thee to be my wedded husband to have and to hold from this day forward for better for worse for richer for poorer in sickness and in health to love and to cherish you till death us do part” etc. ” and neither Prince Charles nor Lady Diana kept their vows so my point is what difference does it make if the obey is in or not. Think about it folks it certainly is not one worth arguing over.

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Tricking partner into having a baby

Posted on February 5, 2011 at 12:10 pm

JOY = Togetherness

How many people do you know that have tricked their partners into having a baby? Mmmmm just like me quite a few.

It is extraordinary to think how one could do that especially as the result may not always be what you want. It is not just the women who do this, I also know of some men who did it. But with what results – in the cases that I know of, one in particular, the trust between the two people is gone. This particular example I am talking about is where the woman went off the pill and then when she announced that she was pregnant – his question was eh I thought you were on the pill, to which she replied I told you I was coming off that. Now why didn’t he remember I wonder, yes your guess is as good as mine. They now have a beautiful daughter, that wants for nothing and they are still together yet their relationship still lacks trust. So that is one case where they have remained together and has a happy ending for the sake of their daughter.

Another such case that I know of is where the man tricked the woman into becoming pregnant by substituting her pills for similar looking tablets – I did not go into the detail as to what tablets they were, but the end result of that was that this very career minded lady became pregnant when she least desired her pregnancy and this impacted their relationship extremely negatively as it removed the trust completely and showed up all the existing cracks in their relationship which ultimately led them to get divorced. The Dad is a great Dad and loves his son and spends as much time as he can with him, but this is not ideal. So who got what they wanted in the end – I would say neither in this case cause starting a family and having children is something that you plan to do together forever.

In conclusion, I would remind you of my previous article which was about both of you wanting children and I believe that this is something you find out early in the relationship and if you are both not singing off the same hymn sheet then for the sake of all concerned it is best to leave that relationship. But where you choose to stay and go on and trick your partner into having a child you need to do a lot of building on the relationship afterwards to gain back trust and love from the person you have left down. There is a relationship forum on the net to answer any questions you may have about advice on relationships and they are all free.

In one word JOY can be described as Joint Owners of YOU = in other words togetherness which is all you need when it comes to having a perfect relationship with everything you have ever wanted in it. Therefore make sure you are with Mr. Right and that your goals are as one and you practise wise love. Why complicate your lives by settling for second best.

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