Ask the question do you want children? 
So many people sail through a relationship into the engagement stage and then onto the wedding without asking themost important question – do you want to have children?
Yes it is too late to find out in the marriage that your new husband or wife are not interested in having a family?
I hear you thinking so what sure I can trick him or I can trick her into having a family.
No you can’t – do that and that is the beginning of the end of your relationship.
That is why it is so important to find out beforehand that the man of your dreams or the woman of your dreams want children. This is so important and must be discussed prior to the wedding. It is so interesting to note that you both will discuss the colour of the table napkins, the music to be played in the church, the first dance etc… and omit discussion the rest of your lives – which is will we live together forever as a couple or will we start a family once we are married. Once you agree that you both want a family then the next question is interest is how many? But that is something that can happen over time and not something that will impact your relationship. Whereas one of you not being in agreement to have a family is certainly going to affect your relationship hugely. So don’t be afraid as soon as you recognise that this relationship is becoming serious then find out – are you intersted in having children? If the answer is no then you need to take another look at the relationship and either agree to disagree or move on from that relationoship to find the relationship you wish to have where children can be the centre of both your lives. This is such an important subject and must be discussed prior to walking down the aisle. Remember marriage is a commitment for life and if you discover something that you do not like after your marriage then you are facing a life of hell so don’t run that risk and get agreement on having children prior to the wedding day. It is worth it. RElationships can be difficult at the best of times but when you walk blindly into commiting to that relationship without agreeing on children then you run the risk of huge unhappiness, so don’t be foolish make sure both of you want the same things in life and only then walk down that aisle. Do come back for Article no. 2 in my 100 challenge which is Tricking your partner, husband, wife, etc, into having a child.
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