JOY = Togetherness
How many people do you know that have tricked their partners into having a baby? Mmmmm just like me quite a few.
It is extraordinary to think how one could do that especially as the result may not always be what you want. It is not just the women who do this, I also know of some men who did it. But with what results – in the cases that I know of, one in particular, the trust between the two people is gone. This particular example I am talking about is where the woman went off the pill and then when she announced that she was pregnant – his question was eh I thought you were on the pill, to which she replied I told you I was coming off that. Now why didn’t he remember I wonder, yes your guess is as good as mine. They now have a beautiful daughter, that wants for nothing and they are still together yet their relationship still lacks trust. So that is one case where they have remained together and has a happy ending for the sake of their daughter.
Another such case that I know of is where the man tricked the woman into becoming pregnant by substituting her pills for similar looking tablets – I did not go into the detail as to what tablets they were, but the end result of that was that this very career minded lady became pregnant when she least desired her pregnancy and this impacted their relationship extremely negatively as it removed the trust completely and showed up all the existing cracks in their relationship which ultimately led them to get divorced. The Dad is a great Dad and loves his son and spends as much time as he can with him, but this is not ideal. So who got what they wanted in the end – I would say neither in this case cause starting a family and having children is something that you plan to do together forever.
In conclusion, I would remind you of my previous article which was about both of you wanting children and I believe that this is something you find out early in the relationship and if you are both not singing off the same hymn sheet then for the sake of all concerned it is best to leave that relationship. But where you choose to stay and go on and trick your partner into having a child you need to do a lot of building on the relationship afterwards to gain back trust and love from the person you have left down. There is a relationship forum on the net to answer any questions you may have about advice on relationships and they are all free.
In one word JOY can be described as Joint Owners of YOU = in other words togetherness which is all you need when it comes to having a perfect relationship with everything you have ever wanted in it. Therefore make sure you are with Mr. Right and that your goals are as one and you practise wise love. Why complicate your lives by settling for second best.
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